Emma is always awake before me. Sleeping is not her thing. So she comes over and lies a little in my bed and cuddles. And for God's sake, I must not say that now we must get ready. She will not. Mother shall. So I say, "I'm going to pee, I'm going to the bathroom." … Fortsæt læsning PDA-strategies in the morning and around kindergarten
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My daughter’s PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance)
Emma is not diagnosed and if we can avoid it, we will avoid it. She would not get a diagnosis now anyway. She is 4 years old and is one of the two biggest trouble makers in her kindergarten, but in many ways she seems so normal and non-autistic that her behavior can easily be … Fortsæt læsning My daughter’s PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance)
Mother with plenty of development potential
Today I was losing hope again. She simply did not want to stop watching her tablet and she did not want half a biscuit but a whole biscuit. And I insisted on the half biscuit which she threw after me, retrieved it, threw it again while she yelled and cried and hit me with her … Fortsæt læsning Mother with plenty of development potential
Plan B – when nothing helps
Yesterday was a bad day. My partner drove to the zoo with the little one, but she fell asleep on her way there and was allowed to sleep for too long. So the zoological garden was cancelled and we met at an ice cream shop instead. There her whole body trembled because she froze so … Fortsæt læsning Plan B – when nothing helps
Mum is proud
Emma cleans up after eating oatmeal and cornflakes with raisins and coconut and crunch. Sets it all in a row and says to her mother: "I'm done." Mom is proud 🙂
Media Time Vouchers
My child does not like it when I make the decisions and she gets really angry with me when I take something from her. Especially when it's her tablet. That's hers! How dare I take it? It does not matter that I have set the time timer and that we had a deal and that … Fortsæt læsning Media Time Vouchers
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My daughter has no diagnosis. And it is unclear whether she should or will ever get one. But that does not prevent her brain from functioning in many ways just as my own brain. I can cheat myself to really much and can get myself to almost everything, if only I have a sufficient amount … Fortsæt læsning How we use cookies and other rewards